the beginning of yesterday was perhaps the most surreal morning i've ever had. i was in that in-between wake and sleep stage and i heard the doorbell ringing. like six times. finally, s went downstairs to answer the door. it was a fat asshole in a buick.....

let me fill you in on monday before i go any further. when we took the kids to their grandparents, s had ae tell her mother that they needed to talk. s wanted to say that he didn't think that a continuence (sp?) should be granted and why. so of course the evil one (his ex-wife) can't just have a civil conversation. she tried saying all kinds of things that weren't true. ae was sitting at the car with me and said, "she's lying." so, the evil one said to s, "i can't believe after all this time you still hate me". s said, "i don't have any feelings at all about you." because to the evil one, it's ALL about her. not about the children. but at least s was able to tell her how he was feeling. of course the evil one must have told her new husband....that's right the fat asshole in a buick that i mentioned at the beginning of this.

yes, that's right he drove up to our house early yesterday morning to "threaten" s. even typing it now, i feel like it didn't happen. it was unbelievable! so he had all of these things to say to s that just weren't true, but see the evil one and the fat man live in an alternate reality. seriously. what is the truth is not the truth to them. so then, he tried to tell s that he just needs to love his kids. yes, parenting lessons from the man who cheated on his wife and has a daughter that is no longer speaking to him. she has two children. so because of the fat asshole's life and choices, he doesn't get to see his grandchildren. so needless to say, the threats didn't work on s. he just talked to him calmly and i'm sure that pissed the asshole off very much. so, the asshole said that we shouldn't take this any further (meaning - to court). s said "i didn't want to go to court in the first place." and then the asshole said "just talk to the evil one (not her given name of course). she's my wife and i'm going to protect her...blah, blah, blah." the whole thing was just a crock of shit. i literally had to bite my tongue to keep from saying anything. and then he said how they just love them all the time, etc. and i wanted to say, "so you didn't drag aa across the floor away from the refrigerator, you fat f*ck". after he left, i cursed like a drunken sailor. (no offense to sailors as i enjoy that cursing sometimes!) s maintained every bit of composure. i admire his patience in dealing with idiots like the asshole. anyway, our useless attorney actually drew up papers today that may be signed by the evil one so we don't have to go to court. that means the girls will get to come and live here soon!!! :) hooray! it's only about them and their lives being better by living here. and they are such sweet girls. aa, as i mentioned before, really needs to be in some counseling, but that can happen when they come here. and also, she won't get yelled at or hit anymore. we don't yell or hit. so hopefully, their lives will be better and happier. and again, i'm not a mean person at all, the two of them (evil one and asshole) just bring out the worst in me!

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